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Your Grief, Your Way: A Year of Practical Guidance and Comfort After Loss
A non-religious daily devotional for navigating life after the death of a loved one—now available in Portuguese!
Everyone experiences grief differently after the loss of a loved one.
Some people find solace in comforting quotes and warm words, while others feel a need to take action—to do something to memorialize their loss. And some benefit from both approaches.
Here's a path forward for you, no matter how you process your grief.
Your Grief, Your Way features:
Multiple ways to process grief: Find relief through short meditations, mindful reframings, journaling prompts, concrete actions, and more.
A year of daily messages of comfort: Each page includes a quote and a short paragraph about grief along with a practical tip--something you can do to tend to your grief.
Comfort and practicality in short spurts: Discover strength and support in these bite-size nuggets, since grief reduces the ability to focus.
Quotes from a wide range of grievers: Tend to your grief with thoughtful words of people who have been in your shoes.
Your Grief, Your Way is a heartfelt companion for anyone navigating the uncertain, overwhelming journey of grief. Filled with daily reflections and gentle prompts, this book offers a safe space to explore your feelings, honor your loved one, and reconnect with yourself. Whether you’re searching for moments of comfort, a spark of hope, or simply a reason to keep going, this guide encourages you to move through grief at your own pace—with no timelines and no judgments. Just the grace to heal in your way.
Healing doesn’t happen all at once, but it does happen, one day a time.
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Advance Praise:
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Perfect for anyone who’s struggling to regain their footing and needs to proceed gently and with care.
- Hope Edelman
#1 New York Times Best Selling author of Motherless Daughters and author of the new book, The Aftergrief -
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The book we should all run out and get after our loss… This book will stay by your bed side for many months to come.
- Christina Rasmussen
Author of Second Firsts and Invisible Loss -
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Your Grief, Your Way is tremendously helpful. It is written for the grieving brain—short sections with easy to digest passages and practical suggestions. Shelby writes with compassion and wisdom; her words help the reader feel seen and understood. This book is a gift and a comfort.
- Lindsey Whissel Fenton
Producer, director, and writer of Speaking Grief documentary -
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An invaluable resource for anyone making their way into grief.
- Jana DeCristofaro, LCSW
The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families and host of the Grief Out Loud podcast -
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Forsythia is a sturdy, wise guide who has already been there for anyone going through this painful and confusing journey. This is a book that could help everyone who has lost someone.
- Kerry Egan
Author of On Living
Get a sneak peek of Your Grief, Your Way!
I read four entries from the book plus share my “WHY” behind writing a daily devotional on grief.
Readers LOVE Your Grief, Your Way
With more than 20,000 copies sold and over 400 5-star reviews, Your Grief, Your Way is helping grievers across the world navigate life after the death of a loved one.
Grab your copy—or two—of Your Grief, Your Way today.
Your grieving heart will thank you!