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Coming Back: Conversations on Life After Loss

What does life look like after the funeral? After the divorce is final? After the diagnosis? Whether your loss is a person, a relationship, a job, a pet, or a dream, loss shapes who you are and how you choose to live in the world. Join Shelby Forsythia, Intuitive Grief Guide as she explores the ideas, resources, and stories that help us "come back" to life after death, divorce, illness and more.

Episode Archive

E136: SEASON 10 FINALE: Your Grief Belongs + A Big Announcement!

E135: Everything Is Spiritual (Including Grief!) with Rob Bell

E134: Shaping the Story of Grief with Diane Zinna

E133: Technology That Leaves a Legacy with Art Shaikh

E132: Coming Home to Yourself with Mona Luna

E131: Moving the Body Through Loss with Avni Trivedi

E130: Embodying the Practice of Grief with Sara Chizek

E129: Transmitting Unspoken Gratitudes with Mana Bhatt Sanghvi

E128: Grief in the Language of the Heart with Cristina Chipriano

E127: Experiencing Grief in the Body with Victoria Albina

E126: Honoring Kids, the Forgotten Mourners with Gary Shockley

E125: I Am My Mother’s Daughter with Dara Kurtz

Season 10 ↑

E124: SEASON 9 FINALE: Grief Is a State of Transition

E123: The Leftover Pieces with Melissa Bottorff-Arey

E122: Getting Curious in the Midst of Grief with Dr. Jenn Hardy

E121: Grief in the Jewelry Box with Lindsay Joy Taylor

E120: Being Known and Finding Belonging with Denise Soler Cox

E119: Divining My Way to Acceptance with Rachel Wilkinson

E118: Running Into Grief with Katie Arnold

E117: Speaking Grief with Lindsey Whissel Fenton

E116: My Husband Is Not a Rainbow with Kelley Lynn

E115: Grieving When a Pet Dies with Kevin Ringstaff

E114: Motherless Mother's Day with Cheryl Strayed

E113: Grief Day by Day with Jan Warner

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E112: SEASON 8 FINALE: A Coronavirus Uncertainty Meditation

E111: My Hope Is Still Healing with Frankie Orella

E110: Freedom Is Acknowledging "I Don't Understand" with Kim Peacock

E109: What Doesn't Kill You Makes You Weirder with Kelli Dunham

E108: Spoiler Alert! You're Going to Die with Tammy Faulds

E107: The Dangers of Romanticizing Grief with Gabrielle Valdes

E106: How to Give and Receive with Care with Janet Reich Elsbach

E105: Unravel with Stephenie Zamora

E104: I Hear You with Michael Sorensen

E103: Death Is Inevitable; Grief Is Not with Jennifer Mathews

E102: The Merciless Mother Scream with Victoria Markham

E101: Supporting Grieving Kids with Jana DeCristofaro

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In the Meantime: God Is Joanne Fink's Path to Connection

In the Meantime: Emily Washcovick Validates the Impact of Mental Illness

In the Meantime: Death Doula Alua Arthur Is Anything but Goth

In the Meantime: Sarah Nannen Prioritizes Being Human

In the Meantime: Rachel Whalen and I Talk About Comparing Griefs

E100: SEASON 7 FINALE: Introducing Life After Loss Academy

E99: Creativity for the Bereaved with Joanne Fink

E98: Winning the Worst Kind of Lottery with Rachel Reichblum

E97: From Heartbreak to Wholeness with Kristine Carlson

E96: When a "Do-aholic" Grieves with Kristen Meinzer

E95: You Can't Break Up with Grief! with Emily Washcovick

E94: I Met God at the Sunrise with Miami Knight

E93: Motherless Daughters with Hope Edelman

E92: Making Space for Grace with Alua Arthur

E91: There's More Than Surviving with Sarah Nannen

E90: Parenting a Dead Child with Rachel Whalen

E89: Second Firsts with Christina Rasmussen

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In the Meantime: Human Is Better Than Perfect for Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner of Modern Loss

In the Meantime: Marlie Rowell Knew Hopelessness Was Not an Option

In the Meantime: Richard Pryor Takes Things One Second at a Time

In the Meantime: R. Glenn Kelly's Coworkers Stopped Visiting His Office

In the Meantime: J Mase III Reads the Grieving Bill of Rights

In the Meantime: Neil Davis Discusses Music As Nonverbal Grief Support

E88: SEASON 6 FINALE: Make Your Own Meaning + A Giveaway!

E87: Modern Loss with Rebecca Soffer and Gabrielle Birkner

E86: Suicide Widow Etiquette with Marlie Rowell

E85: Taking the Butterflies and Rainbows Out of Grief with Richard Pryor

E84: When Grief Professionals Grieve with Cole Imperi

E83: Honoring Grief in the Workplace with R. Glenn Kelly

E82: It's All Good with Kat Bonner

E81: Empathy Is My Jam with Non Wels

E80: Living WITH Fear Not IN Fear with Susan Angel Miller

E79: Heartbreak Is... with J Mase III

E78: We Are Not Our Losses with Julie Cluff

E77: Not Better with Neil Davis

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In the Meantime: Emily Ruth Pays Me a Compliment

In the Meantime: How a Shared Death Experience Immediately Changed Dr. Sharon Prentice

In the Meantime: Vivian Nunez Creates Space for Latina Grief

In the Meantime: Kate Manser Believes Most People Are Good

In the Meantime: What Katie Huey Finds Beautiful Today

E76: SEASON 5 FINALE: Who Am I Now? + A Giveaway!

E75: Endless Stories with Jessica Waite

E74: Like Being on a Crashing Plane with Emily Ruth

E73: There Just Ain't Words to Explain This! A Shared Death Experience (SDE) with Dr. Sharon Prentice

E72: Waiting for the Other Shoe to Drop with Vivian Nunez

E71: Grief is a Clusterfuck with Alison L. Miller

E70: Dead Moms Club with Alica Forneret

E69: Allowing Grief to Be Holy with Rabbi Anne Brener

E68: An Invitation to Joy with Melissa Lyons

E67: Nailing My Feet to the Floor with Catharine H. Murray

E66: Perspective is a Hell of a Drug with Kate Manser

E65: Living in the Baby Steps with Katie Huey

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In the Meantime: What I Know for Sure

In the Meantime: I'm Gonna Have a Pizza

In the Meantime: Our Bodies Remember Grief and Trauma

In the Meantime: A Couple of Wedding Stories

In the Meantime: Why I Still Listen to My Hometown Radio Station

E64: SEASON 4 FINALE: The Power of Finding Your People + A Giveaway!

E63: Doing the Grief Shuffle with Glen Lord - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E62: Giving Men Permission to Grieve with Herb Knoll - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E61: Wearing Grief Shoes with Lynda Cheldelin Fell - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E60: Learning to Dance Again with Robin Chodak - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E59: Grief at a Round Table with Peggy Langenwalter & Trish Comer - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E58: Giving People Back to Themselves with Cathy Cheshire - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E57: There Is Life Beyond Bereavement with Annah Elizabeth - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E56: Choose to Heal with Barbara J. Hopkinson - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E55: The Energy of Grief with Sharon Ehlers - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E54: Comfortable in the Surreal with Diane Speer - Bereavement Cruise 2019

E53: Joy and Grief Can Coexist with Linda Findlay - Bereavement Cruise 2019

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In the Meantime: Chelsea Leigh Trescott on Why We Need to Be Alone (Sometimes)

In the Meantime: Why Michele Neff Hernandez Misses Her Dead Husband When It Rains

In the Meantime: Ruth Ungar on Dolly Parton's "Coat of Many Colors"

In the Meantime: What Kim Skarritt Would Do With a Day Off

In the Meantime: Debbie Augenthaler Laughed and Cried at Her Husband's Funeral

In the Meantime: Megan Devine Doesn't Want a Memory Box

E52: SEASON 3 FINALE: It Comes Down to Choice + A Giveaway!

E51: Let You Guide You with Chelsea Leigh Trescott

E50: "Look at All Those Widowed People!" with Michele Neff Hernandez

E49: When My Story Ends with Ruth Ungar of The Mammals

E48: Tender and Fierce with Marni Henderson

E47: A Life on the Edge of Loss with Tara Caffelle

E46: Blessing and Releasing Senior Dogs with Kim Skarritt

E45: Layered Losses with Debbie Augenthaler

E44: You Can't Outrun Grief with Sunny Joy McMillan

E43: Coming Back... One Year Later

E42: Grief Works with Julia Samuel

E41: Refuge In Grief with Megan Devine

Season 3 ↑

In the Meantime: How Caleb Wilde Wants to Die

In the Meantime: Kerry Egan on Love After Death

In the Meantime: Joshua Black Helps People Open Up About Grief Dreams

In the Meantime: Candyce Ossefort-Russell Recommends a Book for Talking About Death

In the Meantime: Darwyn Dave on Keepsakes

E40: SEASON 2 FINALE: You've Gotta Say Yes + A Giveaway!

E39: "Heartcore" Grief Science with Candyce Ossefort-Russell

E38: Dealing with My Grief with Darwyn Dave

E37: A Different State of Mind with Katie Scoggins

E36: On Living (and Fumbling) with Kerry Egan

E35: Confessions of a Funeral Director with Caleb Wilde

E34: How to Survive a Miscarriage with Karin Holmes

E33: Finding Tranquility in Loss with Kimberly Wilson

E32: Death Dialogue with Morgan Brown

E31: Grief Dreams with Joshua Black

E30: From "Why Me?" to "A Why to Live For" with Harriet Cabelly

E29: The Good Goodbye with Dr. Gladys Ato

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E28: What's Next + A Gift!

E27: Taking a Break

E26: When Bad Things Happen and We Need to "Do Something"

E25: Unforgettable Faces and Stories with Eileen Doyon

E24: Becoming More Me with Alexia Leachman

E23: Joy in the Void with Maureen Magauran, M.D.

E22: This Moment Is My Destiny with Catherine Rains ("The Hotel Artist")

E21: Surrendering to Grief with Lila B

E20: FUN ONE! Grief and The Five Love Languages

E19: Sobbing in the Grocery Store with Heather Kelly

E18: Why I Keep Doing This

E17: 30 Days of Epic Wallowing with Tracey Lewis Stoeckel

E16: From Broken to Badass with Courtney Violet Bentley

E15: Addicted to Being Right with Vasavi Kumar

E14: Mourning Myself with Eve Chalom

E13: Finding Purpose Within the Pain with Christina Lerchen

E12: Racing to Save a Dying Man with Cindy Klinger

E11: The Truth

E10: FUN ONE! Grief On The Golden Girls

E9: Where Is Your Heart? with Holly Worton

E8: Walls Where There Used to Be Doors with Stephanie Zamora

E7: The Griefs We Carry

E6: Honor What You're Going Through with Sharon Ehlers

E5: The Six Grief Myths (And Why They Suck)

E4: Grief is Wild with Iris Rankin

E3: How to Comfort Someone Who's Grieving

E2: The Truth Is Transformation with Arielle Nóbile

E1: Intro

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This podcast was a lifeline in the darkest part of my life.

— Chris J LCSW, Apple Podcasts Review

Shelby has so much humanity and warmth. Without doubt one of the best podcasts about grief and loss on the Internet.

— Lentridge, Apple Podcasts Review

This was an incredible healing experience. Several times I had to pause listening because I was sobbing. I had the same feelings I was hearing others have [in the episode]. Tears heal. Thank you for doing this.

— LeeParm45, Insight Timer Review

Shelby’s insights on loss, grief, and healing as well as interviews with others regarding their losses, have been like a warm blanket to wrap myself in while I navigate the loss of my mother. I could not be more grateful to have found her.

— Rae D., Facebook Review

This was such a powerful episode for me as I am grieving a son who crossed over last year at the age of 23. I resonated with so much and welcome the ideas for reframing my experience with the grief. Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏼

— Charmaine B, Insight Timer Review